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What is Sex?
Think you know all there is to know about sex? Think again. Most people have a very limited definition of sex . . . the four basic concepts of “urge,” “instinct,” “intercourse” and “genitals.” It’s no wonder we have such a narrow definition of sex. Our culture and our language not only reflect perceptions – they shape them. But is sex just an urge or instinct? And is sex limited to intercourse or our genitals?
First, let's address the idea that sex always involves our genitals. It doesn't!

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Escorts as Therapists
"The half a day or so that I spend with her once every two weeks has been far more important to my sanity and happiness than all the hours I’ve spent during the previous 30+ years in church, on therapists’ couches, and on barstools."
The above quote comes from a man who has been visiting a courtesan on a regular basis for about a year. He claims the professional relationship has sparked a new zest for life in him and even prompted him to pursue new creative interests such as playing a musical instrument.
He is not alone. Here are some comments from my former clients:

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